Life

Life

  • Silver linings

    Silver linings

    Forty-something days into self-isolation and the hair jokes are running rampant. Beards, mustaches, hair needing a cut, bad haircuts that have been undertaken and roots – the dreaded roots that have bottled blondes worried about becoming brunettes and brunettes worried about lighter colours growing in. My own locks are long enough that a month or two without a trim isn’t noticeable – and I was fortunate enough to have gone to my trusty hairdresser just before the world changed. So the most noticeable change for me is the silver halo I’m now beginning to sport. In my case though, the… Read more…

  • Coronavirus conundrum

    Coronavirus conundrum

    So. We’re three weeks into self-isolation and home working due to COVID-19. Everyone’s lives – all around the world – have been turned absolutely upside down as we do our best to ensure we stay healthy and don’t transmit this illness to those we know. I’m fortunate to be fully employed, and even if there has been a pay reduction, work keeps me busy during the days, and money in my bank account. For that I am very fortunate. But it’s still hard. I’m missing my coworkers. I’m missing the jokes in the hallways, the coffee room chatter and the… Read more…

  • Forging new plans

    Forging new plans

    My view – the planned version Today I was supposed to be boarding a plane to my picturesque Bosphorus-view flat to spend three months of a four month sabbatical soaking in the inspiration that only the magic of Istanbul can offer. Instead, I spent Day 1 of Ontario’s shutdown of essential services working from my dining room table, writing communications about a global pandemic. The world has changed so much in the past little while. Two weeks ago today, I was starting to get concerned, but still thought I’d be going. By the Friday, I was sure that even if… Read more…

  • Slipping through my fingers

    Slipping through my fingers

    Remember that dream? The one I’ve spent the past year planning?  I’m beginning to think it was just a hallucination.  I’m on the countdown to a four-month sabbatical from work to try and write something worth reading. I’ve got five days left at work and another five until I’m supposed to fly to that view I’ve dreamed about for years. The one that was supposed to inspire me to great things. But with every day – even every hour – that passed last week that view slipped slowly further and further from my grasp. And now, like a mirage in the desert… Read more…

  • In a blinding moment of clarity

    In a blinding moment of clarity

    Have you ever had one of those blinding moments of clarity? You know, the ones that make you see everything in a completely new light? I was invited to dinner a few days ago. As I broke bread with this wonderful family, I sat beside their eldest son. I’ve watched him grow up for the past few years, starting as a shy boy starting grade 9 in a new country. Now in grade 12, he’s a polite and handsome young man with a shock of black hair, bright sparkling eyes and olive skin. He was confidently telling me about his… Read more…